Once again, you are not acknowledging the essential but dubious assumption underlying this claim: that post-processing is fun. So why wouldn't you commit to post-processing every image? One reason, apart from not thinking it was fun, is that you want or need to send images directly from the camera. Another - more important in my view, since I don't use Twitface and I must have been out when New York Vogue called to book me for the spring collections - is that there is a penalty to reducing image brightness (misleadingly called "exposure" - in Lightroom, eg) in post-processing to compensate for over-exposure, which is that changing brightness changes colour relationships. So, once again, what purports to be a technical issue is a concealed, arbitrary preference - in this case, for shadow detail over colour fidelity.
I will not disagree on the fun part, but let me keep that emotional reaction to the process separate from a definition of what an optimal exposure is for digital cameras.
Personally, I certainly do not expose every shot to the right, not by far. It requires time both for setting up the shot and time for post processing. Sometimes, multiple shots are required to get it right because the camera does not allow me to see where exactly the clipping point is, despite using tricks such as UniWB etc.
But the exposures that are not to the right are merely convenient, they do not represent a sweet spot of the medium. Anytime I end up with a shot which has several stops to the right of the brightest part of the histogram, I end up with more noise than what I would have needed to put up with, and if my exposure was not constrained by movement, I could have gotten a better image quality by exposing more. But for some shots, the quality is already sufficient and high DR in today's sensors means that I can get away with it most of the time. Still, I would claim, the exposures are not in a sweet spot of the medium in any way.
I hope it is clear that the discussion is about base ISO only. Anytime you are raising ISO from base, you are anyway not using the full capacity of the sensor, reducing dynamic range. It is still good then to have the histogram to the right, but for different reasons.
I'm not sure I understand what you are talking about regarding color fidelity. Do you talk about individual color channels being clipped? Do you have an example?
ETTR is also a slipperier concept than you are letting on. The sensor cannot detect clipping, it can only predict it from the fact that a number of pixels reach FWC. How, precisely, does the camera make that prediction? And if you have (say) 24MP on the sensor, and (say) 1.3MP on the viewfinder/LCD, (roughly) 20 sensor pixels map to one viewfinder/LCD pixel. How? Does a viewfinder pixel blink if all of "its" sensor pixels saturate, or if more than half of them saturate, or if any of them saturate? Is it's decision to blink influenced by its neighbours? How many adjacent viewfinder pixels have to blink before you can see them? So, what you really mean is that you have to not clip the highlights more than some amount the camera designers decided was important but didn't tell you about, for reasons they didn't tell you about either.
I disagree that the sensor cannot detect clipping. It has access to the RAW data, so why not? The camera manufacturers simply
choose not to make that information available to the photographer. This requires to approximate the clipping point by using a UniWB which removes scaling in the color channels, and using a flat profile to prevent clipping by simply increasing contrast on top of the RAW capture.
I do not understand why they will not give us the option of displaying RAW histograms. This has been requested from the very beginning. My suspicion is, that this comes from being too rooted in the way of thinking of the analog times. The user interface and the available metering modes reflects that. The middle gray criterion, for example, is not very adequate in high-contrast situations.
Again, this point is only a practical hurdle that can be solved, in principle. It does not change anything about what the digital sensor's sweet spot is.
EDIT: Just a word of warning for anyone reading along: Do not mistake this discussion for a practical guide to exposure. The topic is not presented in a way that would be suitable for didactic purposes. If you want to push the limits, you are on your own. I do not want to have you botch your exposures on an important shoot.