Hi Frank, do your reading glasses have prescription lenses, and if so do they have corrections for astigmatism?
My uncle went through a similar process some years ago with his Pentax ME to what you are going through with your FM-2. None of the standard Pentax eye pieces suited him.
His optometrist was also a keen photographer and in the end my uncle had him make up a prescription eyepiece for the Pentax. Problem solved! Maybe this approach might work for you?
My prescription reading glasses are useless for anything but the very near field. I will not go another step to make the FM-2 compatible with myself. If I was wearing glasses always, another cup of tea of course. Then I would see to shooting her with glasses.
I have a very good solution for shooting my MF glass now, the D500.
And in a few moths time, hopefully, there will be the D850 or D900 or whatever they might call the camera.
IMO the general ergonomics of the D500, esp with MF glass, not only the ground glass and the Diopter adjustment is by far superior than the ergonomics of the FM-2.
My memory, nostalgia, did not serve me well. The FM-2 will go again, I will concentrate on the stuff I really use.
As soon as the D850/D900 arrives the D600 will be fixed to my panorama setup. Color consistency over a huge range of ISO and light sources has, for me, become a very important beloved feature of the current fifth gen cameras. D500 IQ at raised ISO is still inferior to the D600. These files do also not play well with post processing. Beware to take JPEG with the D500 with slightly raised ISO. I have seen some in newspapers, barely barable, nearly unfixable. Too aggresive preprocessing in camera or, if you switch that off, very rough when editing these.