To return to the 'DOF' vs. focal length question. The practical demonstration requires using lenses which are "unit focusing" otherwise their focal length changes when focusing closer. I used the old Micro-Nikkor 105mm f/4 Ais and the Artralab Nonikkor 35mm f/1.4. Both at f/4, and set as close to 1:1 life-size as I managed with combination of extension tube(s) and the lens helicoid itself. These lenses also have approx. unit pupil magnification.
I captured the subject, a metric ruler, at an incidence angle of 45 degrees. That makes the final DOF calculation easy.
Here are the demonstration that at 1:1 with my Z5, f/4 nominal, both 35 and 105mm give the same DOF (2.8mm in my estimate). However, the perspective is different, since the distance lens-subject varies approx. 3 times. Also pay attention to the fact that the Nikkor 105 is designed for close-ups, whilst the 35 Nonikkor definitively is not. Thus in the latter case, spherial aberration influences the outcome. Not in a bad way, though.