I have to quote myself:
Do keep in mind that photography is entirely and fundamentally different to the way humans observe their environment. We should focus (sic) on the outcome not the underlying process.
In the church spire vs. Moon question, the implication is that the perspective is 'wrong' because the size of the Moon is not commensurable with that of the church. The eye cannot perceive this, but the camera easily can by means of various tricks of the trade either done in-camera or later.