I dont know what I notice anymore, must say I'm a bit frustrated regarding the D850 and its AF combined with MY lenses. It`s hit and miss. Can't say that I trust these combinations, would NEVER do a wedding the way things are right now.
I don't suppose it would be possible to have Nikon service take a look at your camera and lens?
Regarding the D850, the AF on moving subjects is slightly disappointing with my fast primes (compared to D5) but very good on stationary subjects such as portraits. With the D5 the AF results make me speechless in many cases. The D850 is very sensitive and good in focusing but somehow with moving subjects I tend to get less consistent results than with the D5.
AF tends to be better with longer focal lengths than shorter ones. But I've been very pleased with the 20/1.8 AF-S's autofocus in general (using on D810, D5 and D850). It's fast and consistent in focusing, and much much better than the 14-24/2.8 or 24/1.4. Aesthetically I prefer the 24mm f/1.4's "look" but the 20mm for AF consistency.
I can do some further experimentation with the 20mm f/1.8 and D850. How low lighting conditions are you expecting to use yours in? In very low light there can be additional variation in AF results. I can try in similar conditions.
I think for formal AF tests I would preferably use the kind of distance range where your normal shots are in. E.g. with 20mm I would use a 2m distance to target, maybe 3m.