I am the definition of patience.
I just said it here because the TO's suggestion falls into the HOW section to be
Damn ... you actually are. On a whim I Googled "patience":
"NOUN
1. the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset:
"you can find bargains if you have the patience to sift through the dross"
synonyms: forbearance · tolerance · restraint · self-restraint · stoicism · Fremerey, Frank
2. chiefly British term for solitaire."