Thats good to hear! I thought there were something terrible wrong with my technique
Yet the 12x flower photo illustrates another problem:
getting the flash right.
I am still struggling with this. Bjørn's photo show blown highlights, completely whited-out elements, and somewhat unnatural colors (from the flash), rather than a soft, pastel natural light.
In my first two images, on the preceding page, I was able to omit the blown highlights through my use of diffuser on the flash, but my colors came out wrong, unnatural, and weren't was vivid (in the 2nd photo) as they were in the 1st photo (taken in 100% natural light).
Ultra-macro often requires the use of flash, especially passed 2x-3x magnification. As you mention, the movement of wind/subjects almost demands flash (which changes the light/color).
I know some people who have perfected their flash/diffuser combinations in their extreme macro efforts, achieving an even, natural color, but I am no where near perfecting my own flash techniques yet.
Working on it though