Kim, they are not only nerds but extremists.
You got it right, you need to chip each extension ring for its dedicated lens. In other words, every lens has its dedicated extension ring.
I have one chipped for my 105/4 micro, and regardless of the lens I put onto it, it will read 105/5.6 in the EXIF.
I am thinking of reprogramming it to my Heligon if possible?