The cure depends on the root cause. No good treating the symptoms.
The root cause is the flexibility in the relationship between the subject and the camera.
Any cure has to link the two, solidly.
My own solution is I have my solid old enlarger bolted to the wall, a brick outer wall of the house, as a copy stand, the camera is mounted on the column which is also braced to the wall. I never have a problem with that, but I don't stack - yet... After reading your writings, that may change.
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You could think 'out of the box' and mount an old heavy enlarger stand on your wall with the base bolted to the wall and a shelf screwed to the base to sit the flowers on?
You mention a carbon fibre tripod, in my opinion not an ideal choice, heavy steel better because it damps vibrations, more mass is good when it comes to vibrations. Placing a very heavy steel plate on top of the tripod MAY reduce vibrations but not if the tripod is actually moving up and down, or one leg is. I have read that some star gazing tripods are made of heavy two inch tube, that may help but again not much, if the floor is moving up and down.
A thought is to attach a fine pen laser to the camera, pointing at the subject, that would let you see the movements, and perhaps provoke them to see where the issue lies. Are the legs of the tripod located above the floor joists (beams?) or in between? The location of the joists can be determined by rubbing a strong magnet (from a dead hard drive?) around on the carpet, it will pick up on the nails or screws securing the floor boards, as you probably know joists are usually at 16 inch centres, least they are in UK. Might be better if the tripod legs are solidly located exactly on the joists, rather than on the unsupported boards. Also, if the floor is carpeted, that would allow flexibility, I would drive 3 good #3 Pozidrive screw through the carpet, into the joists, flush with the top of the carpet so they are not a tripping hazard. You could locate the spikes of the tripod in the sockets provided by the screws and achieve a very solid, repeatable, location for the tripod, provided the joists are not flexing of course.
Think X-Ray room in hospital or dentists? The camera is usually mounted either on the wall or suspended from the ceiling.
One simple solution would be to place two six or eight foot planks where you stand, which are supported at each end on bearers to prevent you transmitting vibes into the floor where the tripod is located. Not elegant but should work in the short term. May allow you to complete this task and retain your hair!
I have some 60mm (two and a half inch) thick sheets of chipboard, they are very heavy and solid. Might it be possible to place one on the studio floor where you do your stacking, that should prevent the floor flexing.
I am a retired builder so I pretty well understand buildings, they do vibrate, even with concrete upper floors. Concrete ground floors, provided they aren't suspended, are usually solid enough.
Also think video 'steady cam' some of them work by having a heavy weight suspended below the camera in a rigid frame.
Just a few rambling and well intentioned thoughts which may help.
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Somewhere among them may be your solution, good luck.