She told me without being asked: "I am 82 years old and I am so sad. I come here every day to light a candle and pray to Mary. I lost my son. He died. He had water in his lungs. He was 53. I am so sad. He went to war in Croatia, was smoking and drinking, now he is dead. I am now leaving Germany after having lived here for more than 50 years. I go back to Croatia. I go back home for the rest of my life."